A latex or nitrile glove with lube on it is much smoother than a lubed finger alone, so that's a good way to further reduce discomfort. It doesn't have to be an hour of stretching, but if it gives you pleasure to leave it in there, you can. Like should a small plug be worn a few hours every day for a few days, next size the next few days etc? Very helpful and very descriptive info thanks!! See below on cleaning. I Love My Full Bush. So this will go easier if your guy is experienced, or if he's willing to be patient, try different things, and observe what's going on with your asshole.
You must keep your eyes and ears open during this to gauge her response. Researchers have frequently polled respondents about their opinions on anal sex and how often they engage in it. Also, save anal play for when she is already turned on. My most powerful sex tricks and tips aren't on this site.
We cannot do the initial entry that way, but we can switch to it pretty quickly. The first time it happened, it blew away whatever last shreds of shame I used to cling to, and that is how I am willing and able to post this without a throwaway. Here are some things to consider: First timers can do it without any pain as long as you take it slow. Vaginal, clitoral, nipple-centric — whichever feels best for you. Anal sex feels great when you're with someone who lets YOU be in control of the speed and force, if that makes sense.